Dear Birthmother,

We want to thank you for considering adoption and considering us! We recognize that you are facing an extremely difficult decision. We fully recognize it is your love for your baby that may allow us to realize our dream of having a family. It has been a difficult 3 ½ years of infertility for us, and your selflessness gives us hope. We are excited, hopeful, nervous, and anxious about the possibility of finally having a child. This is only a possibility because of you.

We cannot promise to be perfect parents, but we do promise to raise your baby with love, compassion, and the childhood experiences we cherished. We grew up playing outside: swimming, boating, building forts, and playing sports. For us, living in the country, where we can plant gardens and run around barefoot, is the best way to grow up. Your baby would be cherished by us as well as our families. We vow to keep your baby’s best interest in mind always and nurture them into the best version of who they are and who they want to be.

We can’t wait for the days when we spend evenings grilling and swimming or taking a road trip to a new national park as a family. Once again, we thank you for taking this brave journey and for considering us. We wish you the best of luck making your decision and want you to remember that you are a blessing to whomever you choose.