Dear Birthmother,

I appreciate you taking the time to look at my profile while you are trying to navigate the difficult decision of who will be the best family for your child. The best family for your child may be you deciding to raise your child yourself, someone else who also has a profile, or me. I also want what is best for your child. If I am chosen, I will be forever grateful. I promise they will always know love, will know they are adopted before they can speak, and will grow up in the Christian faith.

I can’t promise they will never get any bumps or bruises growing up. I do promise their hands will get dirty, they will make mistakes, and I will be there to lift them up not just physically but also emotionally. I want your child to know they are loved, know themselves enough to not follow the crowd, and dance to the beat of their own heart.

You will not have to wonder how your child is as I am open to sharing their milestones and progress with you. However, if you choose a closed adoption, that is also okay with me too. Whatever you choose, I hope you are able to find peace with one of the most difficult decisions one could ever make. It takes courage to take a leap of faith and trust the family you have chosen to raise your child. The selfless decision you’re making shows how much you truly love your child.